Del Mar Child Custody Lawyer
When the future of your children is at stake, you can benefit from a Del Mar attorney who understands both the law and the real-world dynamics of family life. With more than 90 years of combined experience, the lawyers at Andrew J. Botros, APC have guided many families through difficult child custody transitions with skill and compassion.
We combine deep knowledge of California family law with practical, results-driven solutions to protect what matters most. Our approach blends book smarts and street smarts, allowing us to navigate complex custody cases with legal precision while providing strategies that work in your everyday life.
Call (858) 422-1377 or contact us online today to schedule a consultation.
Meet Our Family Law Attorneys
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Andrew J. Botros Principal Attorney
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Emiliza San Diego Senior Associate
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Jenna A. Bamford Senior Associate -
Katie Cadiente Senior Associate
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Matthew S. Blado Of Counsel -
Michele M. Vallat Senior Associate -
Orion Bylsma Senior Associate
Board Certified Family Law Specialist
Serving Del Mar Parents
Choosing the right lawyer means finding counsel that not only understands the law but also knows how to apply it strategically to protect your family’s future. Andrew J. Botros, APC brings both authority and savvy to the table. With certified family law specialists, membership in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, and a reputation for smart, effective advocacy, we deliver the insight and strength needed for complex child custody cases.
Call (858) 422-1377 today. We can meet either in person or virtually, whichever works best for you and your family.
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At Andrew J. Botros, APC we pride ourselves on the efficiency of our support staff. Every piece of correspondence that is sent to our office is immediately processed according to our highly detailed system and disbursed. Our clients are constantly in the loop regarding their case because family law matters are extremely personal. We believe that our clients are entitled to be kept up to date regarding their cases and also participate in important decision making. Before our attorneys send significant documents or correspondence to an opposing party or attorney, they often seek the client’s approval first. In addition, clients are always welcome to schedule a sit-down meeting with our attorneys and discuss the overall strategy for and direction of their case.
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Although Andrew J. Botros, APC is a busy law firm, we recognize that first and foremost we are a service provider. As a business in the service industry we recognize the fact that our customers are our top priority. We provide personal legal services to our clients while they go through the difficult process of their family law case. Our attorneys are available at all times to handle client emergencies which often happen in sensitive matters such as custody disputes. At Andrew J. Botros, APC, once a client retains our firm, a team of professionals is immediately assigned to that client’s case. Each client’s team consists of a lead attorney, an associate attorney and a paralegal. The client can contact any of the team members with any questions and can keep his or her bill as low as possible by speaking to the associate attorney or paralegal about certain matters. Overall, our office and our staff are welcoming and ready to work for each client by tailoring our services to his or her particular legal needs.
Why Choose Andrew J. Botros, APC?
Our team approaches every case with focus, integrity, and care. We help families navigate change with practical strategies and steady guidance.
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Strategic AdvocacyWe approach every case with a thoughtful strategy designed to achieve the best possible result. Our blend of experience and insight ensures we stay steps ahead.
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Smart StrategiesWe combine book smarts and street smarts to create effective legal strategies. This balance allows us to handle both straightforward and complex cases with precision and practicality.
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Trusted AuthorityOur team is recognized as leaders in the field. Our team leader, Andrew J. Botros, is a fellow of both the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers and the International Academy of Family Law Attorneys.
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Certified ExpertiseA majority of our attorneys are Certified Family Law Specialists, an achievement held by only a small percentage of lawyers in California. This certification reflects advanced knowledge, skill, and experience in handling family law matters.
Child Custody and the Court Process
Child custody matters involve two main types of custody:
- Legal custody, which covers decision-making power for education, health care, and upbringing
- Physical custody, which determines where the child lives.
Either form of custody may be awarded jointly or solely, depending on the circumstances and what the court deems to be in the child’s best interests.
In practice, this means no two custody cases are exactly alike. We’re skilled at helping parents understand how these distinctions apply in their specific situations and we work with diligent precision to obtain the most favorable outcome possible.
For families in Del Mar, custody cases are generally resolved through the San Diego Central Courthouse downtown, and the process follows a sequence of required steps.
After filing, parents must attend mandatory mediation through Family Court Services (FCS). Mediation gives both sides an opportunity to reach an agreement without litigation, and in many cases, it leads to workable parenting plans that the court will adopt as binding orders. Our attorneys understand how to prepare clients for mediation, enabling you to enter discussions with a clear strategy and realistic expectations.
Not every case is resolved in mediation. If parents cannot agree, the case may proceed to a custody hearing.
This is where having seasoned representation often becomes even more critical. Court hearings involve presenting evidence, questioning witnesses, and arguing for parenting arrangements that support your child’s well-being. With decades of combined courtroom experience, our lawyers know how to craft compelling arguments backed by both law and fact, enabling your perspective to be heard.
Even beyond the standard process, Del Mar families often face unique challenges. Busy professional schedules, commuting demands, and the presence of private or charter schools in the area can complicate parenting plans. We frequently assist parents in developing school-based custody schedules that minimize disruption to a child’s education while also respecting each parent’s role.
Likewise, for families with the international ties that are common in San Diego County, jurisdictional issues and cross-border parenting arrangements may arise. Our attorneys are adept at navigating these complex scenarios, working to ensure that custody orders comply with California law while still addressing the practical realities of your family life.
At every stage, we balance negotiation with readiness for litigation. Many parents find peace of mind knowing we will pursue resolution through diplomacy first, but stand ready to litigate when their rights or their child’s welfare necessitate it.
Stories From Families We’ve Helped
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“I appreciate all you have done to facilitate this divorce, with both your professional and personal counsel.”- C.W.
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“Thank you and your paralegal for the legal services you provided for me. Your legal advice as well as services rendered by your team was very professional and timely.”- C.K.
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“First of all, can I just say WOO HOO! I really appreciate you keeping me updated. Thank you so much for everything and for all of your hard work. Most certainly you made my afternoon!”- S.V.